The Mediation Process

Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Law Mediator
One of the most common questions people have about mediation is simply: what actually happens? Christine believes in demystifying the process - because when people understand what to expect, they show up prepared, and prepared parties reach better agreements.
Step 1

Scheduling

Sessions are available in-person or via secure video platform. Half-day and full-day options are available. Christine's scheduling system allows parties (or their attorneys) to view availability and book directly.
Step 2

Opening Session

Christine begins by explaining the mediation process, the ground rules, and her role as a neutral. Each party has the opportunity to share their perspective on the issues in dispute.
Step 3

Issue Identification

Together, the parties and Christine identify all matters that need to be resolved, such as parenting, assets, support, or other issues. This becomes the agenda for the session.
Step 4

Negotiation

Using a combination of joint sessions and private caucuses (separate meetings with each party), Christine facilitates discussion and helps identify creative solutions. She draws on her 14 years of family law experience to understand what is realistic and what courts typically order.
Step 5

Agreement Drafting

If the parties reach agreement, Christine prepares a written Memorandum of Understanding or Mediated Settlement Agreement. Parties are encouraged to have their attorneys review the document before signing.
Step 6

If No Agreement

If a full agreement is not reached, the session ends confidentially. Nothing discussed in mediation can be used as evidence in court. The parties proceed through the court process with their rights fully intact.

Practical Details

  • Sessions available in person or via secure video platform
  • Half-day sessions (approximately 3-4 hours)
  • Full-day sessions (approximately 6-8 hours)
  • Available for attorney-referred clients and pro se parties
  • Serving all 67 Florida counties
  • Outlook-integrated scheduling - book online

Coming Prepared

The more prepared both parties are, the more productive the session. Christine recommends:

  • A clear list of the issues you want to resolve
  • Relevant financial documents (if asset or support issues are involved)
  • Any existing court orders or proposed parenting plans
  • An open mind, and realistic expectations

Christine will guide the session even if preparation is incomplete. First sessions can often be used to identify issues and set the agenda for subsequent sessions.

Ready to schedule a session?

Whether you are an attorney scheduling a session for your clients, or an individual seeking mediation directly - Christine is here.

Christine S. Cook is a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Law Mediator. This site does not provide legal advice.
Contact Info

5101 North 12th Avenue, Pensacola, FL 32504

Email: christine@divorcingwell.com

Phone: 850-572-3443

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